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The True Test of a Man’s Character

J.P. Hayes won’t be automatically qualified to play in any of the PGA golf tournaments in 2009. He can thank his honesty and integrity for that.

In the first round of the PGA qualifying school last week -- an event in which the top finishers are granted tour member status -- Hayes was playing good golf. But as he finished the 12th hole he noticed that he had just played the hole with a different type ball than he had started the round with. (The rules only allow a player to use the same type ball during each round.) When Hayes detected the error, he immediately called a two-stroke penalty on himself.

But then, at the end of the day, Hayes realized that not only had he played a different ball, he might have played a ball not even approved for play at all. “It was a Titleist [brand] prototye, and somehow it had gotten into my bag,” he said. “It had been four weeks since Titleist gave me some [of these] balls… I have no idea how or why it was still in there.”

Playing a ball not approved by the PGA is grounds for disqualification from a tournament. Hayes, knowing this, called officials and told them of the unintentional error, knowing that it would mean his automatic disqualification.

Gone were Hayes’ hopes for the 2009 tour. No more automatic qualifying for at least the next 52 weeks.

John Wooden is credited with saying, “The true test of a man’s character is what he does when no one is watching.” Hayes certainly passed his test with flying colors, for he was the only one who knew about his mistake. He could have simply ignored his blunder. He could have rationalized to himself that it was his caddy’s fault. (After all, the caddy was the one who handed him the ball to play.) He could have told himself that the rule about playing a particular ball was foolish. But he used none of these excuses. He simply acknowledged his mistake and took the penalty.

What do we do when no other human is watching? When we’re by ourselves, are we the same person as when around others? When granted the opportunity to cheat, lie, or steal, does our honor and uprightness shine through?

We live in an age when men are tempted to be dishonest. The boss wants his employee to lie for him. The teenager expects his peer to cover for his crime. The coach encourages his players to do anything they can get by with without the referee knowing. At other times, life’s circumstances themselves can pressure us to be dishonest, especially if we‘re the only human being that will know. (Of course, God knows, doesn‘t He?) When the cashier hands us too much money back in change… When an answer ‘jumps off’ a fellow-student’s test page… When an uncatchable way to ‘cook the books’ presents itself at the office… What will we do? In many circles honesty and integrity seem to be in short supply. What will we do?

The Bible says, “Do not lie to one another, since you have put off the old man with his deeds, and have put on the new man who is renewed in knowledge according to the image of Him who created him” (Colossians 3:9-10). Our Lord Jesus was the same honest person when alone as He was among thousands -- and His disciples, who are made according to His image, must be as well.

As Hayes, we must be of the character that, no matter who is (or who is not) watching, we will serve our fellow man and the Lord with all honesty and integrity -- “not with eyeservice, as men-pleasers, but in sincerity of heart, fearing God” (Colossians 3:22) -- even if such leads to our “own hurt” (Psalm 15:4).

 

--Mike Noble

 



 

 

 

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October 28, 2009

Central Shelby Church of Christ
1118 Burks Branch Road
P.O. Box 445
Shelbyville, Kentucky  40066
Phone:  (502) 647-9179